How to Tell You're in Love?

How to tell you are in love? Be it to yourself or your sweetheart... feelings of love are not at all easy to address. This is a moment, which everyone goes through in his/her life. Telling someone "I love you" directly is not at all easy.
 
You may feel shy, you can feel awkward, you may feel afraid, and there may be a thousand feelings, going around your mind. But proposing someone for love is not at all difficult, especially if you are positive about your life.


Is it love?: First of all, you must know whether it is love or infatuation! If it is not love, it may just hurt you as well as the other person in the long run. Ask yourself, whether you are truly in love with the person or not.
 

Say it directly: Some people are too shy, that they prefer to say "I Love You" over the phone or through online chat. This is wrong approach. You may feel shy about the whole thing, while the person concerned may feel you are not at all serious about it! Even if you have all the modern technology to help you, but nothing can replace the old but authentic methods!


Choose a secluded venue: If you are determined to tell you are in love, choose a calm and quite place instead of crowdy places like a shopping mall or theatre. If you want him/her listen to you properly, you need a secluded place. Choose the place, which hold some special significance for you like the restaurant where you had your first date or the park, where you first met.


Set the mood first: If possible, book a table for you in advance so that nothing can go wrong at the eleventh hour. Buy a gift for your love interest, keeping his/her likes and dislikes in mind. Flowers are wonderful gift to give on such occasions. Flowers may convey a thousand words without saying anything. Red roses are best if you are going to propose him/her.


How to say I love you: This is the most crucial part and strangely many of you commit mistakes in this. Always talk while looking into his/her eyes. You can take his/her hand in your hand and say everything good, which you feel about him/her. Do not laugh. Do not stretch it long. Say it with simple words that "I love you" or "I have fallen love with you". Keep it straight and simple.


Get prepared for rejection: Make yourself prepared for the worst. It is very necessary for you to accept rejection. If you can accept a positive response, you also have to prepare yourself for a refusal. You have to move on in your life, even though his or her rejection may keep you disturbed for a couple of days or week. But that does not mean that you have to turn up with a negative mind.


Expressing your love to someone may be exciting, since it is mixed with so many emotions. Love is a beautiful feeling. You can feel blessed if you feel love within your heart.

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