You may find yourself in a dilemma when you want to repair a relationship with your ex-partner. It can be hard to win back the confidence and recreate the chemistry which had once bounded you together.
If you are finding yourself losing the interest in the relation but want to make an honest last effort here are some tips to help you rekindle the flame between you two. Check out our tips on how to fall back in love with someone.
Pondering over the situation can help you identify the problems within the relationship. You may try to identify the root causes of the problem which have forced you to end the relation. Discover what had gone wrong between you and then determine if those were repairable damages or not.
You’ll need to determine if you were only infatuated or there were true love involved between you two.
Look at the brighter side:
What are the things which had attracted you towards him/her? Think about the first time you have met. There must be some qualities which have attracted you towards that person. At the fist step identifying those factors will help you in rejuvenating the relation.
Accept negatives too:
No one is perfect and hence you must learn to accept the negatives of that person too. Try to look into the positive qualities that the person have. It will help you fall in love with that person again. If you can make yourself look into the positive side of the relation you will find it easier to love that person.
Accept reality:
It is important to get in terms with the truth. Look at the reality of your situation. Love isn’t always a dream situation and to find true love you might have to compromise with some of your fantasies. Further, to make a relationship work you’ll need to make serious efforts. Have realistic expectations from your relation.
Work hard: A successful relation demands hard work from both the parties. It is not a fairytale situation. You’d need to make amendments and adjustments to make the relation work.
Tread the old ground:
To reestablish a relationship nothing works better than picking up the old scent. Gift the same perfume which you had gifted her on that first date. You can plan a date to visit the same place where you went on your first date or watch the movie, which you have watched together for the first time. Treading the old ground will bring back the old loving memories.
Give it sometime:
Just like a wound, a broken relation too will take its natural time to heal. So, don’t hasten to get united once again. You can take time in knowing each other in the new light of the changed situation and then decide whether it would worth the efforts to reestablish the relation.
Only when you are 100% sure that you want the person back in your life you may make the efforts towards it. But more often than not the attitude of letting the dead bury its own dead will let you enjoy a better life.
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